Most men think they
are doing their women a favour by jumping on them anytime they have an
erection, humping around and exhausting themselves, roll over and snore
away.
There is no woman who
loves this wham-bam-tahnk-you-maam sex and though they may not complain,
they would bee seething deep down, wishing you had not even started it.
There are some deep sex secrets women wish their men knew and believe me, your sex life and overall relationship would be happy for it.
Try these seven secrets and see how your wife responds to your advances.
A good talk is a great aphrodisiac
Many
women find talk a great turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved
are very important. Good conversation during walks or while the couple
is relaxing can be a great aphrodisiac. A man could tell his woman how
much he loves her, which acts as a reassurance that he is with her
mentally during those intimate moments.
Many women are anxious about their looks
For
a couple that has been together for long, sometimes it is natural that
women may feel that their partner may find them less alluring. Because
of this, some women undress only under the cover of darkness. Caring men
can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she's
gorgeous if she isn't, nor is there a need to say that she is not
attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do
find attractive.
For a woman sex isn't separate from rest of her life
On
the other hand, men tend to compartmentalise, feeling that stressful
aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from sexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex.
How
her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in
bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, abuses,
and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel
enthusiastic and be passionate during sex.
An orgasm is not a necessity
Many
men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his woman to orgasm
every time. It is great to have such moments, but know that they aren't
always essential. Many women feel pressure from partners and even from
themselves to reach an orgasm. Sometimes, instead of having orgasms,
women prefer to engage in just foreplay.
Sex need not be a serious act
Playfulness
is a great quality. Many men are far too serious about sex. They forget
to laugh, be romantically mischievous, have fun. Playfulness and
light-heartedness can make intimate moments enjoyable and relaxing. This
takes performance pressure off from both partners.
Women cherish non-sexual touching and tenderness
Women
love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But many women
complain that their men never do this except during foreplay. A woman
should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a
relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts
experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your man
what makes you feel loved and wanted.
Warm attention after sex is important
A
woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking. Some
women complain that men fall asleep immediately after the act. It is
true that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high.
Almost
immediately after ejaculation, he goes through a refractory phase where
he loses his erection and all his systems gear down. In females this
phase happens gradually.
However, if you
don't like him falling asleep immediately, tell him without putting him
down. Alternatively, let him sleep in your arms for a few minutes and
gently wake him up afterwards.
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