These types of arguments if not handled properly could destroy a relationship
As a married man or woman, what
is the worst fight you've ever had with your spouse? Therapists would
say it's okay to have healthy fights with your spouse but how do you
know if you've crossed the line?
These types of
arguments if not handled properly could destroy a relationship. There
are certain ways such conflicts can be resolved between you and your
spouse without letting it get out of hand.
According to Bustle.com, here are 7 worst fights a couple can have:
1. Money fights:
Just as the title implies, money has lead couples to mistrust each
other and eventually split. When one partner finds out that they were
cheated financially by their spouse, there's an immediate feeling of
betrayal and anger which may cause a big first when confrontation
ensues. Couples in this type of situation can resolve their issues by
talking about it. Fight if you know it would bring better understanding
in the end but there's nothing as solid as honesty.
2. Calling each other names: This
is not just immature, it is degrading for any couple who have tried it.
This type of fight is seldom forgotten due to nasty words used by
spouses and toally violates what marriage stands for. Couples should
learn to apologise immediately when faced with this kind of situation.
3. Fighting over sex: Like
number two, this fight is a no-brainer. If there's an issue in your sex
life, addressing the issue with compassion would solve your problems
faster than screaming at each other.
4. Partner's family fight:
Issues like this are bound to come up in marriages. COnstant arguments
about your spouse's family could build up resentment and you both come
from different backgrounds. The best thing in such scenario is to wash
your hands off their matter and only input when you are told to do so.
5. Fights over house chores: This
kind of fight could be very frustrating especially when one spouse is
trying to wield control over the other. FInding a common ground could
work for both couples and the inner control freak doesn't have to rear
it's ugly head every time.
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