Here are 3 of the surest ways to get whatever you want anytime you make the request of your man.
Best ways to ask a man for something and always get itRelationships always involve giving, sharing and reaching compromises.
Given
the fact that men are generally believed to be the stronger of the pair
and hence, often the provider, it is not uncommon that women usually
have things to ask, demands to make, and changes required of their
significant other.
Below are 3 sure ways that will help you get whatever you want anytime you make the request of your man.
Go straight to the point
In
an attempt to avoid looking so direct and demanding, some choose the
other option of ‘stylishly’ making the requests. This is done by
dropping hints, and communicating their desire for that particular thing
in no express terms.
Not going straight to the point when making requests could pose a problem in relationships (HecticParents)
If you want to get an
answer, you need to stick to the point rather than communicating through
subtext. Often times, the intention is even lost on your man during the
indirect asking and hint-droppings. Hence, make a request for the thing
that you actually want, or you just might not get it.
Don't guilt trip him
The point here is to discourage you ladies from shaming your spouse or partner into getting what you want.
Skip the guilt trip. No man likes that (Transgriot)
Sure, taking him on a
guilt trip might get you want, but that’s more down to him trying to
save face or maintain his. You really do not want that to be the
standard in your relationship.
Nobody wants to
feel like they're doing the wrong thing all the time. So instead of
saying to your boyfriend or husband, “Why haven’t you done this or that
for me in six months?” you could instead say “It would mean a lot to me
if you did this, or if you did that.”
Show appreciation
This is almost the simplest thing ever to do, but sadly it is the one taken for granted the most.
Appreciating the little thing a man does for you will only make you both happier and stronger together (ForHarriet)
It is sometimes said
that men are like dogs in the sense that they loved to be praised, just
the way you would pat your dog on the head for being of ‘good behaviour’
or for some similar act that’ll be considered ‘good behaviour’ for a
dog.
Though the comparison with dogs doesn’t
really sit well with me, I have to agree with the logic behind it. Men
indeed love to have their egos massaged, they want to feel like they are
doing things right. An important part of any relationship is to
regularly let your partner know you appreciate the things he does, that
you don't take those things for granted.
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