This is a list of things that quite a few men do not know about
having sex with women. And they’re things that they absolutely should
know.
To enjoy a better sex life with
your partner, you need to understand all there is about pleasing your
woman and what she needs from you.
This is a list of things that quite a few men do not know about having s ex with women. And they’re things that they absolutely should know.
1. An al play isn’t ‘g ay’
Because a bumhole cannot have a sexual orientation. In fact, no body part has a sexual orientation. People do.
So
if you’re only attracted to women and only want to have sex with women,
but your anal area enjoys touching, licking, or penetration, it doesn’t
seem like you’re gay.
Stop with the fear, try
something if it appeals to you, and stop freaking out if a girl lightly
touches that area and you think you might like it.
2. Stop shoving women’s heads down when you want a bl0w job
Unless they’ve expressly said that it’s a massive turn-on when you do it.
3. Foreplay is important
Just
because you’re ready to go doesn’t mean your partner is. You might want
to check. And if she’s not wet and extremely eager, you’ll need to do
some actual buildup.
4. If you condom-free sex, your cum will leak out of her v agina
Seems obvious, but some men appear to think that this only happens if a vagi na is ‘loose’.
5. Not having an orgasm doesn’t mean the se x was bad or that you’ve failed
Orgasms
will not happen every time, because women are not machines with an
orgasm button you can push every time. All the non-orgasm moments of sex
can feel pretty incredible too.
6. Just because you’re finished doesn’t mean s ex is done
If
she’s still turned on, it’s time to make sure she’s as satisfied as you
are. Use toys, go down on her, whatever works. Never leave her high and
drive.
7. When you’re asking her to go down on you, be mindful of when you last showered
No one wants to put their face near a penis that smells bad. Fact.
8. Just because she liked something once doesn’t mean you need to do it every time in the exact same way
It’s
very distracting to realise that someone is sticking to a well-timed
formula or doing a move they’ve read in a magazine. Relax a bit. Respond
to what she is doing and saying in the moment.
9. Sex with a massive pe nis isn’t necessarily better
In fact, it can hurt. A lot.
Stop
wasting your time worrying about the size of your di ck and questioning
whether your sex buddy wishes you were bigger. If she’s having sex with
you, she’s probably perfectly okay with what you have.
10. Don’t ask the woman you’re sleeping with to compare your pe nis to her previous partners
Don’t ask for any size commentary at all, actually. If she feels like complimenting your peen, she will.
Constantly asking her if you’re bigger than her ex makes you sound deeply insecure.
11. Jackhammer se x feels good for very, very few women
Slamming into her cervix might feel great for you, but it can really hurt her. Quit it.
12. Her cli t is important
You need to be doing something to
the clit to have a chance of getting her to climax, whether that’s
positioning yourself so that you’re rubbing against each other while
you’re penetrating, or just reaching down and getting your hand
involved.
13. It's no big deal if she reaches down and uses her hands or vibrator to finish herself off
You’re doing great and she is turned on, she is just trying to get herself off. Bonus points if you offer to do it for her, though.
14. Just because it looks good in porn doesn’t mean it’s actually enjoyable in real-life
In
case you somehow missed this glaringly obvious fact, a lot of the stuff
they do in porn is done specifically because it’s visually satisfying,
not because it feels absolutely incredible for the actresses involved.
15. If we say ‘don’t stop’, DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU’RE DOING
You’ve
managed to stumble upon something that is working very, very well for
her in that particular moment. Continue. Do not stop, or get overexcited
and go harder or faster. Keep going exactly as you were.
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