You'll be shocked to know the crazy reasons why most Nigerian men
cheat and this has nothing to do with them being lovers of sex.
Why do men cheat? This is a frequently searched topic for almost every woman but because the typical Nigerian single or married woman is very ready to settle down, we want to look at four crazy traditional reasons why Nigerian men cheat
1.) Nigeria's population
It's
common knowledge that Nigeria is the most populated country in Africa
with above 150 million people. It's also basic knowledge that the ratio
for women to men is higher. So, with a small amount of men in a country
with such a large population, Nigerian men would tell you, "we are just
trying to help those women who may not have man to marry or even date."
They claim cheating is an excuse to rescue the "unwanted" women with sex
and love
.
2.) Ego
Majority
of Nigerian men are proud and full of ego. A Nigerian man believes he
is a lord, commander or head at all times even in their homes. They
always feel dominant in their relationships. So, they
can do whatever they want because it’s a man's world… including having
mistresses outside their marriages. To some of them, marriage is means
to have someone they trust give and raise of their kids properly. But
they are free to do anything else and shouldn’t be questioned.
3.) Tradition
Oh
yes, "my father did, so I should too". Like it or not, this is one
insane excuse why some Nigerian men cheat. Cheating seems like a deed
passed on from one generation of men unto the other. Some of these men
grew up in polygamous homes or even homes where their
fathers brought different women home despite their mothers living there.
Years later, they naturally want to do the same forgetting that eras
have changed.
4.) Barren wives
This
is a popular excuse among some Nigerian married men. Being married for
5, 10 and above years with no child becomes the perfect reason to have
relationships outside their marriages… in the name of looking for a
child. Sometimes they don’t even have to a thing. Families instigate
these clandestine affairs for the men careless what the childless wife would say or do.
Will this ever going to stop?
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