The biggest complaints from singles are more common than one might
think. It's either the men don’t see them or the men they want have
suddenly vanished from the planet earth.
Most single Nigerian women now have ready-made answers to give as to why they are still single besides it being "I'm not married" -- obviously! The biggest complaints from singles are more common than one might think. It's either the men don’t see them or the men they want have suddenly vanished from the planet earth. Well, here the five biggest complains singles give and some advice for them.
1.) "There are no good men left"
We
beg to differ. It all boils down to how your search and knowing ahead
of time the criteria you need to make a successful match. There are many
options as to where to find the "good" ones like, the church, online
dating, at the golf club … in fact everywhere… depending on what you are
looking for. For those complaining there are no decent men on online
dating sites, it's easy to search for the man whose looks catch your
eye. Weed out the ones who look good with no substance and get to the
good men who may be diamonds in the rough. Try reading the profiles
first and review the photos last.
2.) "Many of our men want models or rich white women"
There's
nothing wrong in Nigerian single men wanting to date models or white
women because the truth is, you cannot continue to attach color to
integrity, credibility, morals or values. Simply expand your search.
You'll be pleasantly surprised that these same men are just fantasizing
about models and do not want to marry them.
Love,
happiness, and respect come in all forms and who knows, someone may
have been admiring you all this time who you never considered.
3.) "Men take too long to make a commitment"
It's
been realized that women are usually in relationships for much longer
than they need or want to be without a title or timeline. You need
identify your requirements early on and introduce those conversations
sooner. Don’t tiptoe around the subject, take it head-on and make your
desires crystal clear. Yes there is a possibility he may walk, but if
he’s not interested in a committed relationship right now and you are,
it’s better to save yourself the heartache of trying to reel him in.
Whatever he says, believe it!
4.) "Men have so many choices, I feel like I'm constantly competing"
With
the introduction of online dating and women being a bit more forward,
there are lots of choices for men. But we’ve found that if you
distinguish yourself and make him realize all the different qualities
that make you unique, you’ll become needed and eventually he won’t want
to live without you. Make a list of what he can only get from you such
as your physical characteristics, fun times together and even signature
dishes. That is your differentiator list.
5.) "The more successful we become, suitors only reduce"
This
a common complaint and there's some truth to it. However, try
networking with single you have met in the circles you’ve joined and
meet their families, friends, and colleagues. The more you expand your
network, the higher the chance that you can find someone compatible.
Also consider joining exclusive organizations and clubs you’re
interested in or attending some of their events from time to time.
Successful men will always want a smart and successful woman as well.
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